During an appearance on TV Oneâs Sister Circle, Andrea Kelly the ex-wife of R. Kelly, spilled all the tea for the very first time in 10 years about her abusive marriage to R. Kelly. I know what youâre saying, why is she speaking out now?! Well, my girl Syleena Johnson asked Andrea why she chose to speak out about her experience now and she said, âYou have to love somebody enough to tell them enough and I donât believe that my ex-husband has enough people in his life to be real with him, to be honest with him, who care about his healing, who care about the healing of these families and I feel like itâs Godâs time. I was not strong enough. How can I be a voice for the voiceless when I donât even have my own? How can I be powerful for the powerless when I donât even have my own. So I had to wait until God said, âokay daughter, it is time.â Take a look at the emotional interview below.