In a Wednesday appearance on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, Jennifer Hudson opens up about her nearly nine-year engagement to her fiancé David Otunga.“I’m not in a rush,” she tells the host. “He ain’t going nowhere.”Former pro wrestler Otunga, 37, proposed to Hudson in September 2008 after less than a year of dating. The love birds welcomed their first child, David Jr., 7, nearly a year later in August 2009, with the singer’s rep telling PEOPLE that she parents were “ecstatic.”